Sunday, 18 December 2011

The secret to surviving your first date

Someone left a comment the other day, anonymous comment, in fact, it shouldn’t be considered a comment, it was a question:

Here it is: “how can I survive a first date?”

Here is my answer:

First of all, let me congratulate you for your lack of manners, no His or hellos, no thanks, no bye….

What’s wrong with you man????!!!!

Second, let me congratulate you on asking this very important question (I’m not joking here, I really am congratulating you).

It’s a great question, but please, if you want to ask something, don’t be as our friend here, have some manners first.

To answer your question and to show that I’m not a robot writing this in a dark room at a famous university laboratory, paid by the US government, I’ll give you these few guidelines:

Don’t talk too much

Be neatly dressed

Don’t go to the date to achieve an objective (sleep with her for example), you should go there to have fun with her and to enjoy a nice evening

Don’t take her to an expensive place, just a pizza place you like or for a walk, you can’t imagine how women like walking with a guy on a date, it’s this freaking romantic image they all have.

Be decisive, don’t ask her to choose the place, be the one that does it

Pay for her, I’m against doing this all the time, you are not her slave, but for the times you invite her, you should be the one paying.

Be funny

If you do all these, you will be fine; in fact, you will do better than ninety nine percent of guys.

Here is a nice article about being fun and funny with women; I think it will do the trick:

http://www.howtoattractwomenhelp.com/How-to-tease-women-girlfriend.html

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